Things Emil has asked me lately:
“Do firefighters wear red underwear? Because I don’t have any red underwear.”
“I don’t want to die, because then I will be with the ghost-es.”
“Mama, you are the best in this whole world. Let’s be friends.”
“I can’t hug you until we get home.”
“I cannot go to school maked [sic]! Then I will be cold!”
The mind of a four-year-old. True, we cannot go to school, or anywhere for that matter, naked (or maked, either). I think how we dress each day is such an important form of self-expression, whether we are mothers, teachers, artists, architects, librarians, or businesspeople. It certainly affects our moods and how others perceive us (whether or not that is a good thing I do not know, but it is true nonetheless) and sometimes even how people treat us, who approaches us… if you live in a big city, it’s your first impression on someone every single day. Pretty amazing, I think!
And don’t worry. Today, I’ve got “future granny” pegged. Have a wonderful Wednesday!
While your outfit is super cute, I’m actually writing to comment on your article in the Washington Post. I found myself wanting to fist pump the air as I read further and further through your article. I’m a teacher and I loathe homework. You put up some excellent points that really resonated with me and were supported by research into this controversial topic. I am also a parent of an almost 3-year-old and I’m learning so much from her about how kids work. The thought of stopping hair creative, imaginative, and independent play, in favor of a worksheet, does not sit with me at all. I am currently working with a small group of teachers to take another look at our school homework policy on homework and will definitely be sharing your article with that group. Thank you so so much for a great article.
Yes, Sonya! Your comment and plans to do something about changing the system make me want to fist pump the air! It’s teachers like you who change outdated systems and inspire adults and children alike. So glad people like you are willing to fight for the cause. Thank you for taking the time to comment!
Lauren, Well said! And super cute dress!
I’m getting caught up and it’s a pure joy. Your tribute to your husband and marriage moved me and spoke to me, and your ideas on homework resonate strongly as well. Your instinct is to give children the benefit of the doubt: like usual you advocate and effectively defend the best in humanity and human nature. You probe at the possibilities so skillfully, examining underrepresented sides of any issue. There’s much I could say on each individual post but I’m not sure I’ll find the time so I just wanted to unequivocally state that I appreciate your writing! Not to mention your spring color palette! 😉 Lovely woman, lovely words, lovely ways. xoxo
Wow, Heather, I’m totally blown away by your kind words! Thank you for making my day, sweet lady!